- margaretcylke
- Dec 25, 2025
- 3 min read
“Does God Exist?”
It’s a question that many ponder, often during times of darkness—like the dreary winter months when Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) kicks in. You know, when the days are short, and the nights seem endless, and you start questioning everything, including your existence!
The Wonder of Life: Light and Darkness
But here’s the thing: life is all about contrasts! You can’t appreciate the light without experiencing the darkness. Imagine if you only had one Flavor of Ice cream - your Favorite - after some time, you would come to really hate it, if you could never pick another.
Take a look at some folks in the USA who have never ventured outside their bubble. They often think the USA is a terrible place, despite it being one of the freest countries in the world! Without contrasting experiences, they create their own little hell while basking in the light. It’s like thinking a sunny day is a storm because you've never seen a Storm before!
The Black Hole Analogy
To me, Depression is like a black hole. These cosmic wonders collapse under their own gravity, bending light in the process. It’s like a cosmic vacuum cleaner gone rogue! But here’s the kicker: eventually, they implode, leading to the birth of a nebula.
A nebula is a beautiful cloud of gas that serves as a nursery for new stars and galaxies. So, just like the pressure of depression and anxiety can feel overwhelming, it can also lead to the creation of something new and beautiful in your life! The length of time it lasts depends on how much pressure you can withstand and how convinced you are of the correctness of your thinking.
Crabs in a Pressure Cooker
Now, some people are like crabs in a pressure cooker—they’ve lived in it so long that they think it’s normal to feel anxious and depressed. But let me tell you, it’s not! It’s like thinking that eating plain cardboard is the height of gourmet cuisine! And that having a stomach ache and being constipated is normal. - I am going to break it for you, it's NOT, and in fact, it's the cause of your bad mood.
The Cycle of Normalizing Bad Behavior
This cycle often starts in childhood when a baby learns that throwing a tantrum gets them attention. They feel that bad behavior is rewarded, and as they grow up, they’re ill-prepared to handle life’s challenges. It’s like giving a kid a trophy for showing up—does everyone deserve a medal?
The Dangers of Misguided Solutions
As adults, many turn to the wrong kind of drugs, often leading to mental health crises that land them in psych wards. It’s a cycle that’s as predictable as a cat chasing a laser pointer!
Hope and Healing: You Can Cure Yourself!
But here’s the good news: there are herbal remedies and self-help strategies that can help lift the weight of depression. Yes, you can actually cure yourself! I did it, and so can you. It’s like discovering you can bake a cake, all you need is the recipe—liberating, right?
Now, I’m not sure if your psychologist or doctor wants you to know this, but healing is possible. After all, they might prefer to keep you as a client on their drugs for the rest of your life—just like a lawyer who thrives on perpetual cases. But remember, you have the power to change your narrative, and eventually have the tools and techniques to cope with life without drugs.
Conclusion: Embrace the Journey
So, in the grand scheme of existence, remember to embrace both the light and the darkness. They’re both essential parts of the journey. And who knows? You might find that your greatest struggles lead to your most beautiful transformations!
Isn't it amazing how something that starts as a black hole can transform into a stunning nebula? Just like you, with the proper perspective!





